3 Things to Guarantee a Great First Date!
By Dee
Durrell
Men, have you ever been so nervous over
a first date that all you could think about was not screwing it up? Do
you find yourself constantly worrying over being rejected, laughed at,
or embarrassed?
Well, those feelings are "natural" to a
lot of men just like you. But just because they're natural doesn't mean
you have to live with them. Do you have a friend that always seems to meet
wonderful women and have great dates? You might even say he's a "natural"
when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex.
Well, just like sweating, mumbling, worrying,
and stuttering come "naturally" to some men -- confidence, charisma, and
charm come naturally to others. And you'll need all three of those things
if you want to have a great first date. Here's how you can use those qualities
to guarantee you and your lady friend have a great first encounter.
1. Display your confidence
One, surefire way you can display confidence
is by deciding on a place to go from the very start. Don't ask your date
"what do you want to do?" You might have nice intentions but, to her, it
just sounds like you're too concerned with what she might think about you
or your decisions. If you're truly confident, pick a great spot and tell
her that you're sure she'll love it.
2. Attract her with charisma
"Charisma" is one of those characteristics
that people find hard to describe -- but when they see it, they know exactly
what it is. What a lot of people don't realize is that everyone can be
charismatic. I like to define charisma as a "personal attraction that is
aroused by enthusiasm." Find a topic that you're enthusiastic about and
talk about that. You'll get bonus points if you can find a way to connect
what you're passionate about to something she's enthusiastic about as well.
3. Charm her
Having charm means being able to subtly
flirt with your date... It means being able to excite her and pique her
interest. Charm is closely connected to the two previous tips: displaying
confidence and having charisma. Without confidence, your flirting will
seem "forced" and awkward. Without charisma, it's hard to establish a natural
connection between you and her. Learn to master the first two tips and
charm will surely follow.
Listen, you only get one chance to make
a first impression. To have the success you want, you need to understand
what makes a great first date. To discover the tips, tricks, and ideas
that will guarantee a first wonderful date that will lead to many more,
visit www.1stDateTips.com.
And if you're like a lot of other guys
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